About Me

This blog is about me and my voyage to becoming a mummy. Ironically called “mummy in the baking” as together with my passion and obsession for all things cake related, I will never be able to have my own "bun in the oven." Years of fertility treatment have taken their toll and I now find myself on a new..eek, i hate this word...journey! The crazy train to adoption. I hope you will join me while I bake my way to becoming a mummy. I want this blog to be a source of information as well as a comforter. I hope it will inspire and help anyone who is considering adoption or who has in fact already bought their ticket for this..here I go again...journey. Cake makes me happy and I hope you will enjoy sharing my love of it. I want it to help lift your spirits and hearts through what can only be described as 'the trials and tribulations of the adoption process.' Along with my desire to be a family, I love my dogs, have an unhealthy love of sausages and chenin blanc, adore my land rover uber-nerd of a husband and continiously dream of balmy summer evenings. Baking in progress…..

Friday, 28 October 2011


The infamous information evening....
We find ourselves 10 minutes early for the information evening and we try and sit quietly waiting for the meeting to start. We are both in real silly moods and looking back now, I can see we were both just nervous and that was just "our little way of dealing with it" I cast my eye around the room. A real strange mix of couples and I find myself wondering what each of their special stories or journeys have been like. But it seems inappropriate to just start randomly talking to anyone about their circumstances for being here, so we sit quietly, stifling our giggles.

The evening is short and informative, sadly with no cake. They talk about the psychological development of a baby's brain and the effects that trauma and attachment disorders have on them. Then we have a couple of adoptive parents in to give us the real life low-down on the adoption experience. A new young mum really catches my attention, she jokes about the two little terrors she has adopted . She says how she found the uncertainty of fertility treatments hard to cope with but with adoption, at least you know there will be a pot of gold at the end of that rainbow. And that she still doesn't know whether that little pot of gold really doesn't like tuna or is just playing up. We leave feeling giddy...this feels so right but we know we have a long wait ahead of us. Due to previous miscarriages and fertility treatments, they want us to wait until June 2012 before we officially put in our application. I spend my time drooling over the pages of the Hummingbird Bakery book and test a new Coffee and Walnut Cake. Totally totally indulgent and lush and it feels good to put fertility treatments behind me and embrace the humble caffeine again.

 Coffee and Walnut Cake...

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